All you want to do is talk to them right?
See if they answer the phone?
Maybe send them a quick text?
These days it's the easiest thing in the world to stay in touch.
Social media has made the world... sociable.
Facebook, Twitter, MySpace (remember them?), IM, Texting, Email.... the list is endless.
Don't get me wrong, social media is fantastic, and is great for staying connected, at work and at play.
Unfortunately, when it comes to repairing relationships, or getting back with someone you love, it is the worst form of communication. It's hard, but you must resist texting an ex.
A common senario that wont do you any favors is something called "drunk dialling". Alcohol will weaken your resolve, and worse still, loosen your tongue, leading to all kinds of babbled messages and/or phone calls.
Drunk or not, text messages often get taken out of context, especially when it comes to matters of the heart.
If you want to get back with someone you love, any contact is very important, and should be approached with a clear head and clear idea of what to say.
Click below to find out the best way to initiate first contact, find out what to say, and just as importantly, what not to say...
How To Get Back With Someone You Love.
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Breakups and Getting Back Together
Breakups are hard, they can leave you feeling helpless, isolated and with seemingly nowhere to turn.
The truth is, a relationship breakup is one of the hardest things you will ever have to endure. Emotionally and physically draining, when you are in this situation it's sometimes difficult to see the right course to take.
Half the battle is putting yourself in the best emotional place possible to make the right choices for you. There is no point trying to get back with someone you love without first making sure you are in the right place, (mentally and physically) first.
Calling, texting or trying to see them will do you no good at all for the time being, the first (and possibly biggest) hurdle is getting your head straight first.
Getting back together with someone you love is very often about doing the opposite of what your fraught emotions are telling you to do. This may sound strange, but re-discovering the person you once were before you even met your estranged lover will help your cause a great deal.
If everything you have tried so far hasn't worked, it time to do the exact opposite...
Here is a great link to some of the best advice around.
How To Get Back With Someone You Love.
The truth is, a relationship breakup is one of the hardest things you will ever have to endure. Emotionally and physically draining, when you are in this situation it's sometimes difficult to see the right course to take.
Half the battle is putting yourself in the best emotional place possible to make the right choices for you. There is no point trying to get back with someone you love without first making sure you are in the right place, (mentally and physically) first.
Calling, texting or trying to see them will do you no good at all for the time being, the first (and possibly biggest) hurdle is getting your head straight first.
Getting back together with someone you love is very often about doing the opposite of what your fraught emotions are telling you to do. This may sound strange, but re-discovering the person you once were before you even met your estranged lover will help your cause a great deal.
If everything you have tried so far hasn't worked, it time to do the exact opposite...
Here is a great link to some of the best advice around.
How To Get Back With Someone You Love.
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