The No Contact Rule - Does It Work?

Much has been written about the no contact rule, so what is it? And does it really work?

Well there is some truth behind the theory, but if taken to extremes it will do you no good at all. It's true that after breaking up with someone you have to give the situation some space.

The last thing your ex needs right now is to be bombarded with phone calls, text messages, emails etc. It's really hard I know, because all you want do is try to change their mind, but hard as it may be, you have to summon every ounce of willpower you have and just sit tight and put the phone down.

During a breakup, or the period leading up to it, emotions and feelings are running high, and things are said and done in the heat of the moment. After all the emotional chaos there needs to be a period of calm, where both of you can collect your thoughts and look at things more objectively.

Take a few days to clear your head and put yourself in a more rational frame of mind, this is much easier said than done, but if you want to get back with someone love, it will help your cause no end.

Don't worry if you've already been in contact with your ex, there are still plenty of things you can do to get things back on track...

Find out how to go about contacting your ex, and what you should say to help you Get Back With Someone You Love.

Texting An Ex - Don't Do It!

All you want to do is talk to them right?

See if they answer the phone?

Maybe send them a quick text?


These days it's the easiest thing in the world to stay in touch.
Social media has made the world... sociable.

Facebook, Twitter, MySpace (remember them?), IM, Texting, Email.... the list is endless.
Don't get me wrong, social media is fantastic, and is great for staying connected, at work and at play.

Unfortunately, when it comes to repairing relationships, or getting back with someone you love, it is the worst form of communication. It's hard, but you must resist texting an ex.
A common senario that wont do you any favors is something called "drunk dialling". Alcohol will weaken your resolve, and worse still, loosen your tongue, leading to all kinds of babbled messages and/or phone calls.
Drunk or not, text messages often get taken out of context, especially when it comes to matters of the heart.

If you want to get back with someone you love, any contact is very important, and should be approached with a clear head and clear idea of what to say.

Click below to find out the best way to initiate first contact, find out what to say, and just as importantly, what not to say...
How To Get Back With Someone You Love.