The No Contact Rule - Does It Work?

Much has been written about the no contact rule, so what is it? And does it really work?

Well there is some truth behind the theory, but if taken to extremes it will do you no good at all. It's true that after breaking up with someone you have to give the situation some space.

The last thing your ex needs right now is to be bombarded with phone calls, text messages, emails etc. It's really hard I know, because all you want do is try to change their mind, but hard as it may be, you have to summon every ounce of willpower you have and just sit tight and put the phone down.

During a breakup, or the period leading up to it, emotions and feelings are running high, and things are said and done in the heat of the moment. After all the emotional chaos there needs to be a period of calm, where both of you can collect your thoughts and look at things more objectively.

Take a few days to clear your head and put yourself in a more rational frame of mind, this is much easier said than done, but if you want to get back with someone love, it will help your cause no end.

Don't worry if you've already been in contact with your ex, there are still plenty of things you can do to get things back on track...

Find out how to go about contacting your ex, and what you should say to help you Get Back With Someone You Love.

What To Do When Your Ex Is Seeing Someone Else

Still in love with your ex?

There are no words to describe this crushing experience.
If you still have feelings for them, it can feel like you are being cheated on, even though you are no longer a couple.

Many people who have recently come out of a long term relationship often feel lost without a partner, and try to replace what they have no longer have, aka: the rebound.

It may do nothing to ease the pain, but strange as it sounds, this could work in your favor. Whatever the circumstances of the split from your ex, your ex is going to miss you being around, regardless of what they say or do. More often than not they are looking for company and someone to talk to, a distration, not much more than that.

So how do you react?

Your ex will probably expect some kind of emotional outburst, don't give them one. If you want to get back with some you love, your reaction at this point is important, so be polite, but brief, smile and carry on about your business. No emotional outbursts or dark looks directed at the new person on the scene.

This is the part where you have to sit tight and be patient, and find out how they really feel. If they still have feelings for you they will want to know why you appear to be unfazed that they are seeing someone else, they will want to know how you feel about their new relationship.

Psychologically, this puts you in a very strong position. Expect your ex to get in contact...

Find out what to say and how to react when they do get in touch.
How To Get Back With Someone You Love.

Texting An Ex - Don't Do It!

All you want to do is talk to them right?

See if they answer the phone?

Maybe send them a quick text?


These days it's the easiest thing in the world to stay in touch.
Social media has made the world... sociable.

Facebook, Twitter, MySpace (remember them?), IM, Texting, Email.... the list is endless.
Don't get me wrong, social media is fantastic, and is great for staying connected, at work and at play.

Unfortunately, when it comes to repairing relationships, or getting back with someone you love, it is the worst form of communication. It's hard, but you must resist texting an ex.
A common senario that wont do you any favors is something called "drunk dialling". Alcohol will weaken your resolve, and worse still, loosen your tongue, leading to all kinds of babbled messages and/or phone calls.
Drunk or not, text messages often get taken out of context, especially when it comes to matters of the heart.

If you want to get back with someone you love, any contact is very important, and should be approached with a clear head and clear idea of what to say.

Click below to find out the best way to initiate first contact, find out what to say, and just as importantly, what not to say...
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